Dear oh dear. You'll increasingly realise that all you learned as a kid; men are dirty cheating bastards, is all false. Happens to us all mate.
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True, right? Maybe I'm biased, but it seems like women do more than their fair share of ripping out hearts. They just make it seem like they're reluctant when doing it ... so not true!
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I thought about saying a lot of things but there's really not much to say. That is super lame and you've got my sympathies. At least you're turning it into something good like this awesome train. Keep being awesome and awesome will be attracted to you. Then everything will be awesome.
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She cheated on you, you deserve better than that.
On the other hand, she changed a lot in last months I suppose? So probably not "the one" for you anymore.
Anyway, thanks for the GA, good luck.
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Sorry for your experience; moving on Bro.
Anyway, thanks for your giveaway.
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Sorry to hear about your girl, you deserve better.
Bump for a good train.
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That's a sad story :( People are cruel nowadays... Don't give up though! If You still think it's worth efforts and that she may change - do everything to get old times back. If You think it's really the end - move along. Whatever You choose, it will be a good choice.
Thank You for the train! Much appreciated. I hope all those thankful words will make You somehow better :) Yeah - giving something to someone makes one feel better at least a little bit.
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Just let the llama seduce you
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Sorry to hear the sad story, but cheer up!
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it's better she left you before you got yourselves in more serious relationship
because if she left you, she was meant to
you need to move on
that does not always mean having a new gf, but it means you have to continue your life normally
thanks for the giveaways btw
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Exactly same story happend with me, almost 1 week ago. Girl far away, study, communicate less and less, then... Break up. And, u know what next? Yes. New guy. But in my strory, I've known her for 2 years and we've been together for 1 year. So... i know what u feel bro ;) U are not alone in that sh*t :(
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Sorry to hear about it but take it in a positive way and enjoy your life. Your life is much more valuable than such stuff!
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Hope that you get better with time. Could that be love? When you'll find the one that makes you happy again (you'll find someone in a matter of time, just be yourself and learn the lesson life tried to teach you with all this) ? Add if you wanna chat bout it. I would like to help more if you want to. Best Regards, marcossilva (I did commented on the GA but I wasn't sure that you would read it)
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My God that was depressing. What a way to start off a Monday. My sympathies. I've been there before. Time is the great healer ... or a better girlfriend.
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The worst thing, I'm off today :) I can't wait to go to work to stop thinking about her.
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And i'm just sitting here, still single waiting for miracle.. ._.
But i know that feeling too, you will probably move on within 2 years
if not more, like me who still haven't move on after 5 years
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Sorry for the news... Just keep you up, it's not your fault and maybe, even if now doesn't seem like that at all, she was not your one in the end. Everything will be better as long as days pass by. Try to cheer yourself up, although I know that it's a hard effort at the moment, but just try every day being a bit positive in your thoughts. That helped me and hope it helps you too. You deserve more :)
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So, how do I start?
I had a girl. Last autumn she moved to another country to study (doesn't really matter what). We started to communicate less and less, she was telling it's due to the classes and also due to the fact she's in a new place and everything looks so interesting, she'd rather spend time exploring the city.
Long story short - a couple a months ago she wrote it's not really working out (and that she's changed a lot in last months and so on) and we should break up. I suggested her to discuss it in skype, but she refused and said it'll only hurt us more (Who the hell breaks up via emails? Well, at least it's not a sms or a tweet). I thought, fine, let's wait for my vacation, I'd visit her and we could at least discuss it face to face.
So for the time being I decided to step onto the slippery "just friends" road, not to lose her completely.
Some days ago I asked her when it's better to visit her. And today she replied that I better do not, and that the real reason for the break up was that she actually has a boyfriend for quite some time already and that they're even living together (knowing her, it'd take at least several months to get to that state).
So what do we have in the end? I was dumped via an email, probably cheated on. I've known her for 5 years and we've been together for 2 years (if to count till the breaup date. Or 1,5 years if to count till the moment she moved for studying.) And I couldn't live without her, thought she was the one. Wanted to marry her one day, have children. Oh well.
So I thought maybe making some people happy with free games (all from my whishlist) could make me feel a tiny bit better? Probably not.
TL;DR
Shut up already, whine girl, and post that link. Here you go. Enjoy it.
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Wow, there's way more replies than I expected :) Thank you for all your supportive words. I know life goes on and everything will be better someday. But I just don't see it that way right now :)
Also, please, restrain yourself from writing bad about her. After all I loved her, and hearing this for some hurts me. Besides who knows maybe I was a real jerk and that was her real chance to finally ran away from me :D And I'm just here badmouthing the poor girl. There are things I did wrong, there are things she did wrong. So let's just leave it out.
She did what she did, I don't want to judge her. If she thinks it's the right choice, if that's what her heart is telling her, there's nothing I can really do. At least she says she's really happy with him. Maybe he can give her what I couldn't.
I just thought that after all those years, after everything that was between us she'd have some respect for my feelings and the courage to say the truth, not that "it's not about you" bullcrap.
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