Edit: Ups, Sorry. Forgot to update here, I've been answering loads of messages and sendint another tonne. We found him already. Thanks for your support everyone! It seems like he had some trouble on the trip with some dudes, and he had to spend the night at a friend's place. Still, he could have told his ex, or family, or someone. But oh well... I'd choose this outcome again if the alternative was a dead or kidnapped brother.

Just like that. Nobody's been able to contact him in the last 10 hours (12pm here in Argentina). He's 28 years old, he told his ex girlfriend (who remains a friend for him) that he was heading over there, and asked her if she had some leftovers because he was hungry. He never arrived. His ex called my mother, my mother told me, and now we don't know what the fuck to do. My parents went to the police and all, while I remained at home trying to, you know, ask for help in facebook and such. No one knows a thing. I seriously don't know what to do. I may be look calm here, but damn, if I have to talk about the topic, the tears arrive. Things like this make me hate Argentina, where assholes can kill you for a fucking cellphone or something. But then again, if that happened, I would have known already. I mean, c'mon, I never heard of someone gone missing after being mugged! See, that's the worrying part. The lack of knowledge and options. And to make it worse, an asshole blocked me from facebook after I asked for a single share, and now I can not keep asking for other people's help. I'm at a loss here. Sorry, but no gibs today, I don't have any money, or time. I just wanted to tell someone about it.

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Damn, let's hope it's just something trivial and he got held up somewhere somehow... fingers crossed for you. :s

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are u able or did already contact the local hospitals for unidentified people...?

maybe something happend and in the hospital they have no ID or contact informations about him...

i hope he is doing fine... :)

8 years ago*
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My parents did. I called OSDE (a medical service of my area) to ask if my brother went to a clinic or something and charged them for the service. But they told me that it wasn't the case...

8 years ago
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Bad news travel fast, so keep hope.

8 years ago
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Yes, that's what I thought and keep telling to my self, but still...

8 years ago
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So sorry to hear :(
I hope he's fine somewhere !

8 years ago
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I'm sorry to hear that. I hope he turns up okay again...

8 years ago
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We're all hoping for the best! :s

8 years ago
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hopefully he just went somewhere else... like a bar or something... fingers crossed that everythings fine with him.

8 years ago
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I'm praying for him. Do you know where he was coming from to go to his ex's house? You could try driving between there and her house to see if you can find him. Maybe his phone died and he got a flat tire or something.

8 years ago
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Try to ask police to triangulate his last known position.

8 years ago
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Omg, horrible news. Wishing you that this turns out into some really funny story that you can all tell your grandchildren one day and laugh about in relief.

8 years ago
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How was your brothers mental state when you last saw/spoke to him? I mean was he depressed or something like that?

edit: Good to see everything is fine.

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sad to hear, hope he can be found soon without any problem. i know its easy for us to say and hard for u, but try to remain calm&strong. hope u'll get good news asap.

8 years ago
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I hope you get some good news soon. Has it ever happened before? Could he have just met some friends and went to drink with them till early morning?

8 years ago
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Mucho animo amigo!! Espero que no sea nada y que se resuelva todo pronto.

8 years ago
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I'm sorry to know that, I really hope you get at last some good news about him. :(

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I was in the same spot, i was that missing person. If your brother has ever been suicidal \ depressed he may have gone off somewhere instead of where everyone else thinks he did. In my case i took a train to go 3-4 hours away instead of school that day. i was declared missing etc and didn't come back home until 24+ hours later.

I hope your brother, if his case is like mine, remembers he has a family to go to. I did tearfully, it just was an awful time all around for me.

8 years ago
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Everything was ok in the end, so yeah. I always think that empathy is key when treating with other people

8 years ago
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wow.. that's like living in a horrible nightmare. I'm sorry you are going thru this.. even if he's ok, it's still painful to experience the possible sense of loss.

Has he ever gone out on a friday night and not come home? Maybe he dropped by a bar, met a girl??
we can hope for the best!

Hope he contacts you soon and he shows up!..
best wishes/ prayer.
please keep us posted.

8 years ago
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It was horrible indeed. Man, I cried, and I'm not that kind of guy. But oh well... Things turned out for the best, I guess.

8 years ago
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glad he's safe.. thanks for the update.
yeah.. sometimes people forget that others love & care about them.
Tell your brother not to do that again! :)

8 years ago
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Sos El_Wachan en taringa?
His brother has already returned apparently.

8 years ago
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His bro is back? Very happy to hear that. Any more info on what happened?

8 years ago
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Yup, updated post. Sorry for the trouble, but I posted similar messages on local social networks and stuff, and I had to answer a lot of messages and stuff.

8 years ago
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Me alegro que este bien ^^

8 years ago
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Sip, soy yo. Colgué con este thread, imaginate la cantidad de personas a las que les hinche los huevos en facebook y taringa, tenía que contestar a un montón de personas jaja.

8 years ago
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Yo me entere primero aca y ahi se me dio por fijarme en T!. Nunca esta de mas difundir por todos lados.

8 years ago
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No, más vale. Prefiero 50 veces algo así a un hermano todavía desaparecido o muerto y quedarme con la duda. Etiquete igual a casi todos los que comentaron o mandaron algo en taringa, tipo para que no se preocupen.

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keep us posted

8 years ago
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Problem solved. Thanks for your concern!

8 years ago
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glad it's ok

8 years ago
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Im happy that you folks know where he is now... :)

I couldn't imagine if someone of my family is lost without contact etc...

8 years ago
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Glad they found him, you can't be too paranoid in this country

8 years ago
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Good that it's solved now, but 10 hours wasn't a bit too short time to talk about him being missing?

8 years ago
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for an outsider maybe...

but imagine to be in a not good protected area and your family member tells you he/she goes to a friend in other town... lets say the member would travel 30 minutes or an hour and never arives... the firend didn't see him/her and nobody has seen the person since then... i would drive crazy in this moment... :S

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glad to hear that your brother is back.... hopefully he will remember what he did to you and your mom, so that he will give you information faster if it ever happens again

8 years ago
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Glad to hear he's back safe and sound.
Next time, invite him to your place for leftovers instead. :X

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