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Thanks =)
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Thanks Khayta ~;3
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thankss
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In response to your thread... I guess.
Ok, and what if "speaking out" to others doesn't help (or even makes things worse sometimes) over, and over, and over, and over again? Then what?
Honestly, how does your example even relate to the message of "speak to others about your problems"? All I got out of it is "make sure you have no family or acquaintances left when you die (no matter how you end up dying) or else you will be causing someone long term misery and sadness". Yeah, I know that! That's the problem! ...I will never be allowed to die... T.T
...Sorry, am I being rude by commenting this? It really feels like I'm being rude for not expressing condolence like almost everyone else are mechanically doing for something you yourself said reached (what should be) a final closure over a year ago... I guess I've gotten increasingly bitter over nothing ever changing in the last several years (or at least- never for the better), so, yeah, if you'd consider me dismissing "speaking out" as some kind of universal depression panacea to be unrelated to the topic, tell me and I'll delete this comment (Why did I even force myself to comment at all?!)... Sorry.Y'know, screw that. I'll just "private message" you like you suggested for unrelated stuff. It's not like there's any difference in where I "speak out". There is no solution anyway. :DComment has been collapsed.
I'm on my phone, I was too dead after running in town for those medical appointements, I think I'm over 60% done with my answer but my brain is so fried right now that it would be categorized as crispy food for zombies.
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Uuummm... What happened to "Help yourself before helping others"? Instead of... answering(?) (I mean, yeah, technically I wrote questions there but they are rhetorical and I don't expect you to try answering them...) a stranger on the internet focus on your medical stuff and recovering from them! :/
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Those are chronic issues, I went to get my prescription and physio, nothing too bad don't worry ^^
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Hello Zlia, I'm glad you reached out to speak about that, and it's fine to have done so in private, it's not a problem and you're not rude, and I see no issues with people offering or not their condolences, to me that part of a discussion is just a society requested behavior, such as saying "hello, how are you" which is a question not tolerating a "no" in 99% of situation.
I have a lot of respect for what you said, it feels like you shared an emotion that is yours, the feeling of not getting better no matter what you or another person tries to reach out and get heard.
You're right, speaking out isn't an universal depression panacea, speaking out isn't always possible, speaking out isn't always the way that works for you. Depression is a mental disorder that has to be taken care of by professionals and sometimes speaking out isn't the way it goes. I do have an example for you and it's myself, since it's really personal, I'll carry on with the rest of the discussion on Steam Chat or Discord whatever you prefer :)
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