I met a guy whose wife had been abusing him and he left her and was living on the streets. I let him stay with me a couple of weeks, helped him get some of his stuff from his wife, feed him, let him use my phone, took him to church with me, paid for his bus ticket(s) so he could go back to where his family is. I am all for helping people out, but I will not give money to people who are too lazy to work for it. He had fell on hard times, but he helped out around the house. He cooked, cleaned, etc.
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I almost always give them an item (e.g. meal, clothing, gasoline) instead of money. I find that the most important thing I can give to homeless people is time and caring. Someone to talk to who will listen and try to help goes a long way.
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I avoid doing so, many of those people actually ignore opportunities of improving in life due to conformism. Even if it's not my job to judge them, I believe there's no other solution but leave them at the government's mercy. Particularly avoid begging kids, cause those are just being used by their parents as means of getting some easy money, when they should've been at school. Not that many homeless people here in Germany, I'm speaking mostly from my experiences in Brazil.
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There was a homeless person that basically lived in a bus stop about two blocks from my house. My mother would drop him off a few peanut butter and jelly sandwiches whenever she went out, and if she wasn't going out she would have me walk them out to him. He was a nice guy actually. We did this for about six months, then he just up and vanished one day, so we hoped he got taken to a shelter or something.
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Hopefully he found a better place to live or something. My dad used to do delivery runs for his company and one of the areas he delivered to was a shady place. Surprisingly, he made friends with one of the homeless people there and the guy watched his truck for him while he unloaded it. My dad paid him $5 for each visit as well as a sandwich and coffee. They had this relationship for 3 years until he disappeared one day :(. He even gave my dad a christmas present of a baseball cap.
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Honestly, I don't even see any in the city I live in now. I know they exist, I just don't actually run into any. Probably because I don't live near downtown and avoid going there.
I will donate food to shelters and clothes and stuff like that to Goodwill as long as I'm not completely broke. I'm glad to help the poor when I can. However, I have also seen a lot of abuse of the systems that exist to help such people so the money often isn't going to people who truly need it, but people who are just too lazy to work.
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yes i gave some of my clothes win i out grew my clothes sorry for english
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Just being blatantly honest. I don't believe they deserve my charity. Also, if a homeless person sees you give another one of their kind money, they'll all flock over you and bug you for money. It's not worth it.
Before you guys give them money, think of why they're in that situation first.
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A few of you seem rather hostile to homeless people. Having been homeless myself, I know not all of them go out and use your money to purchase alcohol, drugs, etc. While there's a good chance they're going to use the money to feed an addiction, think about it before you wave them off and walk on. If you still don't want to give any money, that's fine, consider buying them something they need that's harder for them to buy alcohol with. Food, clothing, etc. They still might exchange it, but there's a better chance they will use it. It's easy to so, but don't judge them all the same, as many are just people like you or I, just with many more issues.
I've helped many, but not recently. I'm not really in any condition to help right now.
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especially if its the right beer. Could build his own house.
http://www.triplepundit.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/wobo-bottle-house.jpg
http://inhabitat.com/heineken-wobo-the-brick-that-holds-beer/
(designed when heinikin saw the state of an island beach(and the scrap cobbled together hovels of the people who lived there)while on vacation and how it was mostly his brand dropped in the water near wherever the bottle was finished. decided rather than litter could be useful)
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....If not then does it count if I ignored a hobo who asked for change, walked across the street to buy some food for myself @ mcdonalds(I was going anyway before I passed hobo) and then came back with 1 of each on the dollar menu for the hobo?...wait don't answer yet...does it count if I did this partly because my friend(who at this point "owed" a little over $50 he swore he'd pay back each time he saw me(despite my never asking for it back and him being the one who decided it was a loan)) said "don't bother he'll just spend it on alcohol, hey can I borrow some I'm hungry("well where'd your money go we both work the same job and live with our parents" "oh, I went to the bar with my brothers")" (hes the sort who when you have $10 total and you say I'll get you something he orders something that costs 6+ predictably every time(but is real careful with is own $ and generally gets a dollar menu food if he had $20))(so was more motivated by me being a jerk than helping somebody i guess)
:)
so probably no, not really. especially since beggars aren't always homeless and homeless aren't always beggars so dropping change isn't really helping
So basically....no.
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There is this guy near my school.
He has 2 dogs and his homeless.
He grabbed a piece of bread and about to eat it.I froze for some odd reason. After that he took a huge breath and gave the bread to his 2 dogs. I took some of my lunch and gave him a sandwhich.
Truestory
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And then you discover that the bread was the rest of your lunch. Damn those sneaky homeless people, urgh.
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It's hard not to want to help when you think about how fortunate we are in comparison. I admit a lot of times I'll look away when I see a homeless person, but generally, if they ask for money I'll give them some if I have any in my wallet. I assume that has a lot to do with guilt, but I hope it also comes from compassion as well.
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I just want to add, I think helping homeless people on the street is commendable, but what's probably more effective is helping them through an organization like soup kitchens, shelter networks, food banks etc. I believe it makes more of an impact when efforts are combined and minimizes the risk of being taken advantage of.
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i remember times where i give a homeless persons like 10 dollars, not sure if that counts
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I would like to discuss about this. Have you ever tried to help homeless?
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