will i make it
hobbies are really good places for new friends
They might not be at your school, BUT they will be interested in the same things as you and will likely have better personalities. I became casual friends with a lot of people i never would of spoken with thanks to some hobbies, we did lose touch but that tends to happen on graduation
(btw i will be ur friend 100% i can count my legit friends on one hand, maybe even two if i include the online ones, but im always willing to make friends with good people which u seem to be)
you'll be good, if i was good, you'll be good
also some good solid advice, held up by all my support and things i wished id learned early. do ur schoolwork but dont let it take over ur life, be friendly with teachers (trust me, hella helpful and lot of teachers are fucking awesome), talk to them early if you have issues and ask questions, be curious! ask for extensions early. dont be the weight in group projects, do your bit and be part of the team. dont let your hair get matted and use dry shampoo. if you cant be fucked to shower and least wash under your arms with a damn towel and use deodorant. keep spare shit in ur backpack, hairties, pencils, erasers, sharpeners, pads. draw and write and read when you can. hang out in the library and chat with the librarians, they're always awesome and will help you out a ton when it comes to projects. even if you cant just do a project early, plan out what you need to do, break it down into small parts and maybe you'll be able to get a grip on an idea. be yourself and just try to be happy
～(mー)人(ーm)～
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School l is easier with friends, but once I graduated school, I never really talked to those friends again. It's good to try and get out and continuously meet people. Even if thats crazy hard sometimes. Hobbies and clubs are a good place to find friends.
Don't worry, it happens to a lot of people in school. It sounds like things are working out now so thats great!
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Glad to see you are moving on. As I said before, with time you will eventually find people who you can call friends.... or at least yo hang out for a while.
Try to stay away from movies, books or games that might upset you. Keep yourself busy with personal achievements, series, games, etc...
I still have my moments of depression but for other reasons, I strongly hate myself, can't help it. Still, while I keep entertained or going out with some friends, I can live with that.
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Just stopping by to send you some {Momo hugs}.
High school is a time of huge change - everyone is trying to figure out "Who am I really?". Throw in hormones, growth spurts and an expectation to pick out a career, get ready for college (and possibly being on your own for the first time) - and well you've got a recipe for a lot of angst. So yeah, there's gonna be drama and pain and stress... Just remember that this too shall pass. Eventually life settles down and becomes a whole lot less "interesting". If you can find some way to enjoy the rollercoaster ride, I highly suggest that. And by that I mean, taking a bigger picture view.
Not sure if that's helpful when you're in the midst of it all but even today, it tends to help me and I am old! :-)
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Glad to hear that things are looking up for you now!:) Thank you for keeping us in the loop.:)
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dont let bad things get you down. even if you are having a bad day. the next day will be different and a new chance! :)
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I don't know how old you are, nether in what kind of school you are, but it doesn't really matter.
Just focus on your school, and on the things that you love to do. Sport, drawing, music, whatever... Just do what you like and try to see some people outside of school. It doesn't matter if your true friends are (or will be) in or out of your school, don't try to much to create a relationship. Most of the time it comes from nowhere, and often with people you didn't even thought about first.
You'll understand it later, but one year is just a short amount of time, even if it's hard and shitty some days. Try to enjoy what you do, don't bother too much about them, stay strong and keep it up. Your school is so much important for your future, you have to make it so you WILL make it!
(And sorry for my english, I hope I'm enoughly understandable)
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edit: i dont know what ive done, but after six months, things are finally looking up for me!
Praise the Lord! \o/
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since the start of the year, its been a rough time for me everyday
i broke off my connections with my (now ex) close friends, because of their backstabbing nonsense
there isnt really anyone i can count on for moral support at school now
i dread going to school every morning, because it is a lonely place full of unpleasant people
the only thing i look forward to each day is to get home as quickly as i can and escape from reality, i.e with my laptop
lately ive tried reaching out to other friend groups and individuals, but it doesnt seem like anyone is committed to develop a good friendship
i still have one and a half years of school left, can i really get through it without a good friend?
a good friend is someone who is willing to sacrifice their own time to give me moral support, and in return, receive my support
its been a long year for me, so i think ill try smooth things by making a ga:
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edit: i dont know what ive done, but after six months, things are finally looking up for me! thank you everyone for your comments! i may not have replied, but ive definitely read them all ⌒°(❛ᴗ❛)°⌒
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