I did my first giveaway 2 days ago (i´m poor so i can´t afford to many games) after giveaway end i add the winner on steam
and put a comment on he/she profile saying he/she his the winner to accept my friend request to send the gift,
he/she didn´t accept my FR so i sent the gift by email and he/she instantly accept the game and didn´t thank me!
At least he/she could have put a comment in my profile to say a simple "ty"...

This ever happened with you? How do you feel about this ?

Ps: i don´t care people spamming Thanks on giveaways but at least if you win you could say a simple thanks
to the person who made the giveaway

Ps2: sry for my bad english its no my first language xD

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sad story

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My favorite boy is back.

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Hey chinese guy

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At least he clicked on 'recieved'. Some people don't even do that. :O

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Its disappointing but what can you do...maybe they are super awkward/shy.

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"maybe they are super akward/shy"

this

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A thanks is still in order from winners I would think.

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Thats it, end of story. If someone's not too awkward/shy to accept a gift, then he/she shouldn't be to thank it too.

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Maybe all their fingers got chopped off so they're using they're tongue to type and thanks is too hard as it makes their face bleed from the effort?

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and play games too...
By Watching on his account (the winners one) The only thing I can think the guy(girl) has no time to friend someone and to fill up empty profile or this is just an ALT account, especially looking at the games the acc contains...

P.S this is just my opinion...

And Yes, as for me Not to Thanking the gifter is like a crime and spittle in the his face...

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Seems logical, I am gonna have to run some tests.

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...So? You gave away a game out of generosity. Didn't you? Because if you did it to fish for appreciation and validation of what a good person you want to be, or think you are, then you're doing it all for the wrong reasons.

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Usually when someone gives you something you say thanks, you might be reading to much into it...

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This, when someone gift something the person say thanks, its called good maners on my country
lol and i create the thread just no now if this happened to someone and how they felt about not to shame the person!

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I agree, as long as the gifter doesnt press to hear a thank you: "well? I didn't hear my thank you!" That's plain rude and not nice, it means they are giving for the satisfaction of hearing the other saying thank you to them... Note that it doesn't look like that's what OP did, I'm not accusing him of anything.

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I understand that generosity is being selfless, but it is perfectly normal to feel awkward and stupid in gifting something to someone without receiving any form of "Thank You!" in return. Otherwise it seems like you owed it to them

It just feels wierd and I'd be very surprised if you wouldn't feel the same way about it.

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Well, feel surprised. Because the implication here is that the "thank you" is owed.

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Not owed, but expected in a civilized society where good manners exist (or so we hope). If someone gives you a gift and you don't thank them (or worse, just take it from their hands and act as if nothing happened), then don't be surprised if that same person will avoid you in the future. I'd dare you to do that.

Of course, it should come naturally to anyone to thank the gifter, otherwise it'd be a forced, hypocrite behavior, but if you feel forced to thank someone at all then you're not all that normal to begin with. (EDIT: I'd expect a lack of gratitude from an animal, who solely thinks on survival, but now that I think about it even a cat or dog shows gratitude when someone gives them food and affection).

Anyway, it's easy for you to say that you wouldn't feel awkward in gifting something with absolutely no feedback in the process, since you haven't spontaneously gifted anything in SteamGifts.

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Ah yes, the "Contributions zero, your opinion is invalid" position. A non-sequitur, because the point stands even and especially outside of SteamGifts itself.

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Exactly! I gave 2 games as well, and didn't get any thanks for that, but honestly I don't care. I am just glad that person who recives a gift will have fun playing it.

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Three questions, for curiosity's sake:

1) When you won your two games, did you thank the gifters?

2) If you discovered that the person you gifted the game to didn't even play the game, or worse, traded it away, would you still not care?

3) Did you feel inclined to gift a game before or after winning your first game?

If you feel like it, please let me know. Depending on your answers I'll learn something new today :).

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[ ] Nevertold Nights

[X] Told Fortress 2

[X] Toldeneye 007

[X] The Told Republic

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So make the rest of your giveaways contributors then? Some people are assholes, this is life.

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^this, it´s a pity but contributors giveaway is a nice invention

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Was going to say the exact same thing ! +1

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Nation Red! <3

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This is why I don't like doing public giveaways. If I ever win another public giveaway, I plan on PM-ing the gifter and thanking them personally.

But...yeah, this has happened to me. This is what happens when you make a giveaway for IRL friends. They're total jerks to you. :P

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Not always. Don't be so cynical :)

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That's pretty messed up to say the least.

Though sometimes when we get things, we forget to thank the giver, (i'm sure at one point we all have done this).

Such simple words of thanks and you can mean a lot to someone.

I hope this experience doesn't harden you against other people though. As there are many other folks out there who would truly appreciate a gift.

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Don't agree with the second sentence, because there's no excuse to bad manners. Damn, I feel uncomfortable in not saying thank you even when someone lends me their pen for a minute, but I guess I'm the strange one.

With all the rest you said: I agree :)

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Same, most of my winners have thanked me, either in email replies or on my Steam profile.

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Thank you for Skyrim!

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troll xD

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I gave away bf3 and the guy sent me a apple pie.

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I made two giveaways recently. When they ended, one winner was online and the other wasn't. I friended both, and chatted with the one who was online to make sure he/she got the game and marked it received here. It all went fine, and this winner was friendly enough, thanked me for the game, etc. The other winner took about 1.5 days to accept the game and mark it received, but never said anything to me at all. shrug It would be nice to get that extra thank you from the winner, but not everyone's going to do that, just like not everyone comments on the giveaways they enter (only about 10-20% of the entrants on mine did) even though the FAQ says, "Always thank submitters." (Granted, it's followed immediately by, "Thanking is not required to enter a giveaway.", but still.) I guess you just can't take it personally.

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He checked off that he received the gift. I think that's enough at this point.

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That's ok, English isn't my first language either

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I had one guy who added me immediately after my giveaway ended, asked me his game on broken english, placing the game in his inventory and not redeeming it after he deleted me. Later i got him banned. It's these little pleasures in life that keeps me going

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I hope it wasn't a good game. lol

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You only think you banned me.

MUAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAAHAHAHAAH

AHUEUEUEUEUEUEUEUE

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There's nothing you can do to a leecher, it's sad :(

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The whole 'give me my game and get lost' attitude of the first couple winners of giveaways I did is precisely why I stopped doing public giveaways. Group giveaways have resulted in much better reactions.

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Not an excuse. Google translate in whatever language: A thank you, grazie, gracias, danke, merci, obrigado (etc) still stays a thank you.

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The winner of my first giveaway never thanked me, either. At least they bothered to mark it as received.

I blame him, not the community. And even then, who am I to judge? Maybe he has this "Give me my game and get lost" attitude, or maybe he sincerely meant to thank me and completely forgot, or maybe he was too busy celebrating his win to get back to me, or maybe right before he could thank me his grandmother died. While those are unlikely, the point is I don't really know for sure. So yeah, it sucks, but whatever, I certainly won't extrapolate it to mean something about SG users as a whole.

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I thought if you sent by email to some one and they accept on an account it instantly adds u to friends list. That happened to me twice, if he accepted the gift it would of added him and then he would have had to remove you after that.

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In fact I just tested this and that is what happens.

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Oh... well that kind of ruins it for me :\ .

I sent the gift by mail. The guy didn't send an email back or anything, but all he did was add me to his friend list in his very private account. I thought that was his way of saying "thanks", but guess not...

At least he added the game to his library of 410 games, though.

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Whenever I win I try to make it really clear to the person that I'm very thankful, and I think everyone should do the same. A complete stranger just spent money on you, be nice about it!

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Shame that people like that are discouraging people from doing public giveaways =/. Most of my entries are public ones and I've only won one game so far but I made sure I thanked the guy with a decent sized message and I still have him on my friends list since he added me (he didn't need to as it was a Steam redeemable key). I guess people lose their manners when they're dealing with people they don't know... but that's really no excuse.

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Donut worry when you feast on their flesh after a quick battle the memory is soon forgotten.

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Most of the winners of my giveaways didn't thank me for the games. Recently I gave a game (group giveaway) and planned to give the winner a DLC if he thanked me, but he didn't, so I made a giveaway of it, and said what the deal was on the giveaway and that the previous winner can't enter. He still entered (but didn't win) and the winner still didn't thank me.

Rather disappointing. Still, I do get thanks on a quarter to a third of the giveaways (I estimate).

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I still wonder whether you received my thank message on GamersGate. That PM system is really bad.

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I got it twice and even replied to you the second time. Maybe you didn't get my message. Check your GamersGate messages again?

Thanks for thanking me and making sure I get this thanks.

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I usually blacklist people if they don't thank me ^^

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You are doing something wrong, next time make a contributor giveaway or group giveaway and you will likely get a thanks in return as a comment/steam chat/profile comment.

This is one of the reasons i hate doing public giveaways for games, so i usually do DLC giveaways public and games private/group/contributor.

There's also the possibility that the person is foreign and doesn't understand you, i also checked that person's profile and it doesn't have any friends at all, coincidence much?

EDIT: Same person has no comments on SG + joined recently, guess he got a lucky shot!

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Just write a support ticket after 7 days from the moment when you sent the gift.

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