hello there guys, sometimes (like now) i use alcohol to mend my serious anxiety provoked by my depression and obsessive compulsive maniacal disorder.. i tend to dont do anything every day, i stare at the three sites i go like the news site, wikipedia site and something like that. but when i drink beer i feel "normal"... more or less. do you have tried anything like that you too?

i dont drink too much.. i care for my liver... i am full of games but dont play anyone

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Works for Rajesh Koothrappali...

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my sister says that im like sheldon more ..because of my obsessive disorder. i tend to repeat myself like rajesh also

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What kind of beer are we talking? Because if someone brings home something like, say Budweiser, Molson Canadian, or Lucky Lager, that's just going to CREATE some anxiety.

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i'm european so heineken, tuborg, franziskaner, paulaner, ichnusa (sardinian beer, my land), mcfarland, beers like that.. by the way when the alcohol effect wears off i return to my usual self and be depressed again.. so bad

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Alcohol is technically a depressant, so yeah. I find the next day after a night of drinking, I'm usually a little down, but it goes away within a day or two.

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yes in fact i know that well true.. in fact i only want to not think anymoree till tomorrow.. keep my company bross lol.. and im not even that drunk.. i only drunk one liter of beer. thats not much..

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+1

Life is too short to drink bad beer.

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hey ill drop a pun.. "you're right pal, you're left ntsc" yo yo ... wot

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Lucky Lager... You from the island?

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Yup. I grew up in Nanaimo, but I'm living in Lake Cowichan at the moment.

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ʕaʔk̓ʷaq c̓uubaʕsaʔtx̣

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I grew up near Campbell River, but am in Vancouver now. Not many people would know that crappy beer, figured you had to be from the area.

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People love the shit around here. It's basically the "town beer," so much so that they even sell Lake Cowichan t-shirts with the Lucky logo on them. Meanwhile I'm looked at as being something of an oddity because I drink Granville Island or Rickards. I don't understand it.

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I'm not sure if you're serious. Why would you post this here?

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its pretty obvious why.. when you're depressed you seek company, advice, you try to fool yourself you have a normal life full of friend and family but there's none, even of there's one.. cause i dont feel anything, only bad feeelings.. im lonely, i want to go outside and do something but i dont wanna because i dont have the will to do something

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Ok, but I'm sure there are more suitable sites for people with depression. Or maybe I'm underestimating the users of SG.

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i spent my life going to various psyco-somethings.. and dont wanna go anymore.. they tell bullshit and didnt serve a purpose really.. i even used many drugs like benzodiazephinssomething, zoloft, anti-psychotic drugs and so on... didnt serve a shit.. i will be shivering when was hot, grinding my teeth one against each other, talking endlessy, being psycotic and so on. i even cut myself while being under the effects of these drugs to see what's where inseide me.. wtf.. america is to blame .. they make drugs for every pathology like ther'es no tomorrow.. they try to invent syndromes like mine in the DSM-IV book of mental disorders..

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Try and see if 0% alcohol beer has the same effect.

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No such thing! Even "dealcoholized" beer has 0.5% in it.

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mine is 6,5%

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That's the best dealcoholized beer ever, right there.

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this could be scientifically correct, the reason is alcohol is a "depressant" meaning it calms you... this is of course if you dont take too much... that and beer has some enzymes in it that can contribute to sleepiness
just like caffeine can cure headaches because it creates a chemical reaction in your body that opens up your blood vessels and so on

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yeah in fact coffee calms me.. you true dude

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Did you try ASMR? (For example this). This seems to help many people with their anxieties

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i love it.. its one of my favourites

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That's what i thought... Seems like ASMR is good against almost everything ^^

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I'm used to everyone on youtube almost yelling into their microphones, so it was really disturbing to watch this video.

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Grab some good headphones, sit back, relax and listen to this :D

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That is the scariest video I've ever listened to*..

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That's quite interesting. You're not alone with that opinion :D. But for most people (including me) this is relaxing as hell. I'm watching this vid since about 10 minutes now and i'm barely able to keep my eyes open

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Watching it feels like someone is standing next to me, breathing into my ear... 2creepy4me.

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I have social anxiety disorder and use beta blockers for bad times. however ive had it for about 15 years so i'm getting used to learning to deal with it. Music such as hard rock, doom metal or dubstep helps keep my mind off of things

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same thing for me.. oh the alcohol effect is starting to wear off.. i listen to dark ambient, drone, noise, illbient and genres like that to calm myself. by the way i too im suffering from 15 years at least. im 26 years old now.. i dont even can work like that because i fear people would talk bad things to me. of fuck i cant even talk in english well anymore ..

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Alcohol in moderate amounts can be a decent cure for anxiety, people have been using it for thousands of years to unwind and reset their stress levels. As long as you aren't drinking too much, what's the problem?

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sure that not a proble. only curiosity.. an lonelisee

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Errmmhh, his anxiety is provoked by depression (and OCD). I thought alcohol was a depressant...? Sounds like a vicious repeating cycle. But hey, what do I know, I'm not a doctor or shrink.

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vicious circle where you find at least some cuddles.. by yourself.. my girlfriend is sleeping the other side of the city and she needs to because she works so i cannot wake her.. i want to embrace her. fuck im lonely....... time to play an happy game like "max payne 1"lol

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I know from experience that playing Max Payne while drinking is damn entertaining.

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tn tn nnn nu nu nunuuuu tn tn nnn nuununu nunu ni ni nu nu nununuù tananana nnanannnnnnaaaaaaaaaa max payne 1 music

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of stephen fry i love that man. my girlfriend says always to me that is an example i could follow because im smart and handsome but it s too dangerous outside allone.. i cant do anything i freeze and do bad things.. like raptus of wrath and movement impairing and speech strange..

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hell, I learned the wikipedia just to know dafuq you wrote there. I wish you to get cured

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i wish i as well.. lol.. but i dont think there's a cure..

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you know, such thing as fear you can "cure" by facing the person or the object you fear. I think it's working here as well. for loneliness go and find friends online and importantly in real life, you fear to go outside - then get out of your home and walk the streets.

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no, see that's what everyone say to me since i was little and since i was diagnosed with this syndrome... i dont have problem with anyone, im pretty popular, i have a girlfriend we stay together almost the time it's 6 years we're together, i even worked in a bank so there's no problem.. there's no problem apparently,.. if i stay silent but in reality im suffering.. there's was a period in my life i slept 16 hours a day.. i didnt want to do anything.. i stopped go to school, stopped go outside, stopped eating.. the result, i lost my friends, my girlfriend of that time and so one.. now i have a new girlfriend, i love her, i play in a rock band, i sing and play guitar, im pretty... but that isnt enough for me. i still suffer.. its not that simple

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I remember I had a friend who was sleeping 18 hours a day and did nothing and looked depressed, so I decided to help him secretly, I was with him many hours, I talked to him and when I was with him I wasalways smiling and making jokes and this kind of stuff, but it's to long to write, so it gave some results, when I accidentally heard he went to a prostitute (lol) and stoped to sleep this much, got job and started to live so maybe you need this good friend who can help you

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a misfortune.. there's no opportunity of work here in central italy like in southern europa at all.. mizerable me.. i appreciate your attempt : )

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ok it's better if i do something like play shin megami tensei strange journey or thief the dark project.. i love those games.

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I started with major anxiety due to post traumatic stress disorder. Spent a couple years visiting a psychologist and then a psychiatrist. In the end, a combination of paxil and marijuana and I'm anxiety free (this was prescribed by my psychiatrist). I live in a country where I won't go to jail for this, if you can try and see if it works for you.

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unfortunately in italy for as little as a joint will be going to jaill.. thank to our wise catholic idiots politicians like giovanardi and idiots like him.. they even killed some guy for that in police station.. like aldrovandi, uva, cucchi..

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I wish I could get marijuana here too...that might help me also:(

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Dude, believe me, I know what you're feeling. I used to do it with hash and weed, but it got to a point that I was spending more than I could actually afford. Yes, beer can have an anti depressive effect, but is not wise to go trough that path. Just remember to be self aware, and be careful. And, I know it's easier said than done, but seek help.

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yes i agree with you.. in the end every substance will be nullified by my brain.. or worse ill start to damage my brain or liver... thanks guys im a little relieved right now.. not much but a bit yes

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good night guys and gals.. (i dunno).. im sleepy.. maybe tomorrow i will wake up and checking steamgifts ill notice i won something.. ill hope lol, ten minutes of euphoria and then same as ever.. nite. : D

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beer is no cure, the real cure is to find out who you are, underneath the name and your life story.

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i know who i am.. depression is not a problem of uncertainty.. it's a brain disease.. you cannot cure it

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Depression a brain disease ?

Depression is not a physical problem in most case, there's different kind of depressions but one thing is for sure if you think this way there's no cure for you. And beer in your case is just hiding the symptoms.. that's in no way a solution and will probably lead you to be dependent on it.

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First off: depression can originate from a bunch of different causes and affects people differently because of this. With the right prescriptions and/or therapy it can be curable, or at the very least treatable. It's only incurable if you stop looking for a cure. I'm not a doctor so I won't give you any medical advice, and I don't know your situation , but I would highly recommend looking for solutions in places other than the bottom of a bottle. It's a temporary solution at best, and can lead to worse things. Like I said: not every type of therapy or medication is going to help, and some will make it worse... the brain is a confusing and not very well understood thing, but Psychologists, Psychiatrists, and Therapists are trained as best we know how to deal with these problems. You'd take a busted car to a licensed mechanic, and you should take a depressed brain to one of those. Just like mechanics, there are good Psychiatrists and bad Psychiatrists. Just like I couldn't fix my own car, I couldn't fix my own brain. Keep trying. That's my advice, anyway. Hope you get help and feel better.

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that I know but are nearly two decades that I'm visiting various therapists, psychologist and psychiatrist and I don't want to gift them money anymore. I say that bipolar disorder is a mental disease because it's scientifically proven and because I don't have real problems. I have a girlfriend I love, I play in a band, I do what I want everyday but everything seems black to me. so no, I don't need to resolve any trauma or stuff like that. That's what the medics tell you so that you can continue paying them

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yep like MythGabriel said, this is the real solution.

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know that feel i drink/smoke shit too

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Hmmmm I'd suggest some moderate herb-based sedatives instead, perhaps. But that depends on how much beer you need, actually. :)

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Hey. Have you watched an anime called Welcome to the NHK? The main character is a recluse with bad anxiety. It's a sad story with comedy and dark comedy. I watched it, and I'm sure you will like it. This anime may not cure you, but you may or may not get something out of it. And if you didn't get anything out of it, hey it'll distract your sadness for a few days.

Episode 1 (Good Quality and English Sub) Watch the first few episodes of the show, and the momentum of interest shall appear. Kinda like Steins Gate somewhat slow beginning.

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+1 for NHK.

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That anime hit so close to home that I had dangerous thoughts for a week after watching it :/

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Isn't alcohol considered a depressant?

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Alcohol makes your body release dopamine , dopamine increases things like the "Feel good" factor and also trust in self.

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It's your brain that produces dopamine

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Haven't said anywhere it's not the brain who does it. I just stated a simple fact, didn't infirm or affirm that the brain does it.

Dopamine is like a rewarding system, do things that makes your brain release dopamine and you'll feel good, like smoking, eating chocolate , drinking alcohol and many other things. Generally things that end in "-mine" do that trick, like nicotine,caffeine, etc. and yeah, even cocaine,heroine and amphetamine but I don't advise doing that.

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Actually only amphetamine ends in "-mine", the others end in "-tine", "-eine", "-aine" and "-oine".

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Check them in latin then.

They all have the same ending, it was just a fun fact about these things, there is bound for some Negative Nancy to pop up and spoil the fun.

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I was just trolling, sorry:D

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Isn't that a common route to become an alcoholic? Also, alcohol is a mild dopamine enhancer, and I wouldn't use it if I had a depression, since you already have somewhat disturbed dopamine balance = fast addiction, lower everyday-dopamine-levels and even worse anxiety problems in the future if you keep using it.

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works for me

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I'm diagnosed with asperger syndrome. It's neither a disease or curable. Beer doesn't really work for me, it usually makes me tired (I believe I've read that it's common for us) and do stupid social things I regret later. It doesn't help with my main problems at all, which are that I don't have alot of friends and I don't really do almost anything in life. Also I tend to get terrible heartburns from drinking beer:s

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My partner has aspergers and he doesn't drink either. Even small amounts give him hangovers and he says he can get violent when he drinks although I haven't seen it for myself. I don't know if the two are connected, though.

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I'm never violent. I drink occasionally but then I remember why it was a bad idea. A few beers is nice but even 2 litres is too much. My main problem is always the heartburns, not so much hangover (I try to drink too water when drinking beer).

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alcohol make depression and huge damages. you should never use drugs and especially hard drugs like alcohol if you care about about your mental health! stop it now before it ruin your life and your brain. go find a goal to your life, this is the solution.

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I'll be quite honest with you. Dont make a big deal out of it, i mean, i know it is, but you shouldn't. On the other hand, try some cognitive therapy with psychologists or psychiatrists. People have been studying this sort of things for years and decades so you dont have to go to a forum trying to find your "own solutions". Just go and get some therapy buddy :) you will be ok

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works everytime

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