my roomates want to go to the strip club (updated again)

I don't think that there's a way to revert this. Even if you try really, really hard, those nutjobs won't get the meaning of having a ... let's say... "etiquette" (don't even know if I wrote it right lol). You might fell disgusted and isolated, but that's perfectly normal and will always be, so there might not be a way to stop this "dumbasseness", mate. It comes with some people... It's like in their DNA, being a "bad boy" with habits that makes them think that they look cooler, like drinking like an Opala, smoking more than a steamboat and treating all the women like whores just because of their profession... Sowwy, but that's the way life is :c

If u are good at poker I have to solution for you. Play poker with them for money. Take their money. If they still talk about the strip club then offer them a chance to get the money back but this this time they have to pay with their clothes. Take their clothes also. If they still talk about the strip club then well there is no solution for you, but you can always tell them that now that you have their money and clothes you have other plans but they can happy go to the strip club without money and well naked :D .

I'm joking btw. :)

I don't know how you can convince your roommates to change their views and values of women, but it's nice to know that people like you exist. People who actually know what the word 'misogyny' means. Respect is important, any gender. Sexism is crap, sadly it's everywhere. It's what society feeds us every day. Oh well, hang in there. :)

QQ some more. Stripclubs are fun. I go there with female friends ffs. If women werent willing to do this, it wouldnt exist.

hah i seriously hope this is a troll... just no.

tell this to strip club gals. they would make fun of you. I hope this is troll.

I use to go to strip clubs a lot when I was younger but finally got tired of blowing money on something with not much return. We use to go to one in town where we could get a bottomless beer mug for $20. Cheap to drink and scenery to enjoy. Most of the dancers I talked to were actually intelligent and enjoyed their job. They took the job because it makes really good money.

I'm a follower of Christ but I'm not here to judge people just like you shouldn't be. It's not our place to do so. If you grew up with a strong Christian background you would know this. From the way it sounds you and your friends are still pretty young and as you get older they may grow out of it.

Yeah, fuck men! God damn pigs, being attracted to women!

Those cis scum should get their privilege checked.

..... I hope this is a troll.

castrated?

Even though I agree with you there's not much you can do. People will do what they want to do regardless of anyone else. All you'll be doing is trying to put out a forest fire with a single bucket. Let them be. I've always had the thought of never push your ideas onto someone else (not talking about religion either, just ideas in general). If they want to do so, let them, they know the consequences, and the same goes for the strippers. They know what was going to happen before they took the job so they accepted that. Today's society really sucks and I know that. I lost hope on it already and I don't give a fuck anymore. If they are leading themselves to oblivion, fine by me, just don't drag me to your stupidity. I suggest you do the same. Just to clarify, Key word: suggestion. You may or may not take it. That's just the way I think.

Can I join?

calls society misogynist

has strong christian background

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Let me resume this topic in 1 single line:

This guy complains that his roommates (not his friends because he believes that he's too good for them) are going to a strip club.

Seriously, WTF?

Well, I understand what you're saying, in school I normally heard my friends and colleagues saying "Damn look at dat ass! Hnnnnng". And I'm like "Okay and??? Who cares about an ass or tits when what's important is personality and intelligence. Because if I want to look and talk to girl it's because I like her and not because of her looks".

Also, I'm an atheist but my parents taught me well ;) Just do what you belive is right.

Support the dancers, they need money too. Actually they DO make money of sexist pigs so i don't see what is the problem.
In a fair non-biased caring society those women would be unemployed!

this is puberty, some people grow faster out of it than other...
Let it wait a while, it'll come togheter eventually

Just tell them "When I'm hungry I don't pay money to look at food"

This is exactly how I feel when some of my friends put me into awkward situations regarding women. Let me explain it with an example. We walk on the street, talking casually about some stuff. We walk towards a bus stop but we do not intend to stand still there. We see a blazing redhead in a really sexy dress, tits out and whatnot... you get the idea. Then, my friend goes like "Ooooooooooooooooh! maaaaaan look at those TITS! I would fuck the shit out of that man! Hey man, look at it! LOOK AT IT!", all the while the woman is obviously in hearing distance, and he's not even trying to conceal this hick behaviour, what with pointing at her and looking her in the eye while he does this.

Then when I just feel fucking embarrassed by him and avoid all kinds of eye contact with the lady and all the bystanders, he turns to me asking why I'm not looking at her and if I'm "fuckin' gay or what, bro?"; acting like it's me who should stop acting awkward. Moments like this I feel like murdering these kinds of persons with a rusty knife, really. I'm not sure about your friends and if they do it like this, but if not, then be glad. If they do, then go ahead and call them shitdicks because they more than deserve it, and they should be fucking ashamed of themselves, no matter how much of an alpha male they want to seem.

Can't believe I just wasted my time reading this, please be a troll.

Just do it

It sounds like you and your friends/roommates aren't similar enough to bother hanging out. Recommendation: get your own friends instead of hanging out with your roomates' crowd.

A big "Facepalm" that's all I leave here~

This guy has the right idea.

i never understood why people go to strip clubs, we have the internet were women do a lot more for a lot less unless it is paid to get laid which is a lot worse considering the millions of viruses and other stuff, but i digress.

it is really bad how the extremist of both genres are acting these days, with a lot of men being incredible pigs, in my opinion, ignore them, that is what i do with my friends whenever they want me to do something i dont want to, i say no and ignore them until they give up, as for educating them, its nearly impossible, believe me i have tried and they just dont give 1 fuck about 3 shits.