On the other hand, soon I will be single for 3 years and I am starting to get worried.
Don't.
Focus on living a "complete" life on your own before you worry about adding a partner. Doing so will build your confidence and sense of self, making you much more attractive to other "complete" people. It will also make all of your relationships stronger and healthier due to you being your "full self" with others. Finally, if it should happen that you continue being single for some time, you will not have wasted that time being miserable.
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Happy birthday! Exercise is a great way to change up your brain chemistry and feel better about life in general. Don't let that fall by the wayside. Good luck on your date, but don't worry too much if it doesn't pan out. There's somebody out there waiting for someone just like you to come along. Just keep looking.
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Happy Birthday Keen...I wish you all the best. Peace and Grace, friend. If you allow me, don't put your trust in Tinder or anything else (or even a person)...just talk with our Father...just try it...try to relate to Him...I am not talking about religion, which I despise (not the religions people, but religion)...unfortunately religions just divide us...just you and your creator...I am SURE He will do what is best for you, today and always, if you let Him...sorry if I disturbed you anyhow
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Happy Birthday, Keenzor!
Is Tinder date still a thing or is it always a thing?
I never bother to check it out, though I'm wondering is it ever a thing
In Japan it's mostly used to meet new friends and drinking together
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Happy birthday and thank you for the nice train. Good luck with your date!
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Edit: Just wanted to thank everyone for the wishes and encouragement, this thread has given me a lot of joy and some stuff to think about (good stuff). The keys have been sent to the GA winners, enjoy! :)
Today I got to add another +1 to my age and since I have not been very active in the 'giveaway creation department' (mostly because I am too lazy to go through the whole process), I have managed to hoard bunch of keys (mostly from Humble Monthlies since I rarely buy other bundles these days).
So here comes the obligatory train
And since this is a good opportunity to spill out some stuff, I usually bottle up inside, to complete strangers, I might as well use it!
Not that there is much to share... Job-wise things are going well, January marked the start of my 4th year at the company and since Autumn I finally got to do what I like full time so that's neat!
On the other hand, soon I will be single for 3 years and I am starting to get worried. The feeling of loneliness, accompanied by the feeling of worthlessnes is really starting to get to me and while I still do manage to get out of the bed and go to work everyday, I am afraid that a day will come when I just won't be able to.
On the bright side, I have a date scheduled on Wednesday (first one after a year!) so who knows, maybe things will take a turn for the better (though I would rather not get too excited since it's a Tinder date and I have never had a second one with anyone I met through it).
I have also been working out since January and it actually helps me to feel better about myself though I have been slowing down a bit past two weeks, hopefully I will be able to pick up the pace again this week because it would suck to stop now.
I might not be that active here anymore but I still enjoy reading the forums from time to time as well as entering the giveaways of course, so thanks everyone for keeping this place alive. Cheers!
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