I want to share with you my pain [GA]

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I really don't know what to do
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I don't have an actual experience with this kind of thing but I hope this helps so here we go

My first thought when I read your post was, "Is this really the kind of thing you are looking for? are you really sure that you like or even love her that way?"
Now don't get me wrong, but what I define as "love" might be different from your approach

First of all if you really did not see what is happening then I can't help much
I mean she gave you the chance and see where's the relationship going and in the end she decided that you are not for her, and that's it
She tried to love you and tried to be more than friends, but it didn't click

These kind of things happens to a lot of people, where you go from friendship to liking him/her and you are really sure about it so you give it a try but it's not working out
I could say that I've been on your shoes because I once like a girl in high school after she broke up with her bf and I was there for her
At first everything was just a normal friendship, I mean she was cute but that's all
But then when I got the chance to really get close to her and be there when she need someone to talk to everything changes from friendship to "love" (or so i thought)
I ask for advice from my friends and one got me thinking, a friend of my mine ask "are you sure that this is that 'love' you are talking about? are you really happy when you are with her, or are you just comfortable with this kind of relationship?"
Took me a year but I finally realized that I did not really fall in love with her, I just didn't want to see her cry

What I'm saying is that this kind of thing might mislead you, so you might want to ask yourself "am I really happy or just comfortable with it?"
Just because you are "the one" that she need when she is feeling down does not make you the one she really want to spend her day off, especially if she is looking for a long term relationship.
Now I don't get much detail from your story and what I'm talking about might different from what it is
I'm sorry if I talk nonsense

TL;DR
don't push too hard to get her, just stay the same and do what you've always did
be there when she needs you and don't change your opinion to her, stay
because if she really need you and come back for you, that's when you really should think about it

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just live

My advice: don't have a sexual relationship with a bisexual person

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It's hard to get out of a strong passion. But it's possible. It may seem impossible right now, but you gotta trust me on this one, it's all about time. Give it time. Yes, you'll think about her every night while laying in bed before sleep, probably for a few months still. But it slowly fades away. Just start to consciously remind yourself that she is not your girl, even though your feelings say otherwise. It will get better.

Been there, done that.
All I can say is "buck up, kiddo". I mean, there are plenty more fish in the sea, right? :)
I know I may sound like an effin' a-hole, but I guess life can't be always sweet :(

Just move on. Pretty much all you can do.

No one cares.

The relationships that starts right after a breakup are really complicated. Sometimes is better try to talk sincerely, and sometimes is better try to take a couple of months to let the feelings settle down, and have a broader look of the situation.

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Just MGTOW

Damn that's a crappy one, but there isn't anything you can do, you can try doing something that shows how much you care for her, but beyond that you should just give up on her, there is no point being in a relationship where your partner does not see you as their soulmate and no amount of good acts or please can change that...

There should not be a reacher and a settler in a relationship, both partners should feel like they are the reacher and none of them should feel like they are the settler. (For clarification settler is when you settle for someone you feel is below what you can get while reacher is when you are with someone you feel is above what you can get, the best you can ever get)

If the relationship isn't built like that then there isn't a foundation that will last throughout the year and it will eventually end.

Bumpsies

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It sounds like she tried and she enjoyed it, but she couldn't get emotionally invested. Sorry. Happens to ALL of us.

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It's hard to tell, don't know you and her as well, but if something don't just works, it's better to just move on and don't try to force things to happen. Your pain will be less now if you stop trying to force a relationship. :FeelsBadMan:

Just move on, like really. If she left you once, she might as well leave you again

If you're sure that you don't want an "only-friends-relationship", then you have to get over it (sounds simpler than it is, I admit that). But as long as you're revelling in the past, you might spoil lots of good moments in your future. So, I would recommend that you do some activities which are fun for you and which do not make you think about her. Additionally, I made the experience that women rather seek for something "new" than trying to hook up with their close friends, especially when they have not yet overcome their last relationship.