Girls are weird that they think that they wanted friends relationship but when u find another girlfriend, she will get jealous and said that she loved u in the past.... Aghhhh sub trouble
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She seems a little too flip floppy to me, wouldn't trust her in the long run at all. I'd probably stop pursuing her.
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Here's how I view it. You made your intentions clear. She turned you down initially, you persisted. She relented, but now she turned you down again. It seems to me that she doesn't feel the same way about you as you do about her, she doesn't share your romantic feelings.
It sucks, I know, I'm sorry. But don't waste your time pursuing her. You can keep your friendship - or not, it's up to you - but you've got to move on with your life. There are plenty of other eligible women out there, so don't waste your time on one who has repeatedly said that she's not into you.
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That sucks... I feel for you...
My first advice in any situation where passions are involved is to wait some time before acting on your emotions. Sometimes in the heat of the moment we are not thinking as clearly as we will after things have settled down. You don't want to do or say something that you'll regret and make things worse. Getting a few good nights of sleep can help to think more calmly.
Ultimately, you must respect her right to make her own decision, even if you don't agree with what she has decided.
If she hasn't given you any better explanation about her reason, she is probably not comfortable doing that, so you should not confront her about it. It will only seem desperate and I don't think most women will find that attractive.
Most of the advice here is saying to try to move on and that's probably good advice. That won't make it hurt any less for you right now, and does not make things any less confusing, but after some time you'll get over it and be able to proceed with life. "Move on" does not necessarily mean that you can never talk to her again -- whether you will feel comfortable remaining friends, you'll have to try it and find out. I understand not wanting to be around her if it's too painful right now, so maybe you can keep your distance for a while. But, again, the passage of time may help to make things easier and hopefully at the very least you can get back to a good friendship.
Good luck, man... it's a tough situation...
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Mate, it doesn't look too good.
She is already considering a relationship with someone else despite knowing your feelings.
You wouldn't want to be with someone who is flip-floppity.
Save yourself the heartache and play it out as friends or acquaintances.
The right girl is right round the corner. You can wait or you can meet new people.
I know that it is rough and all but you deserve someone who will reciprocate your feelings
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Maybe there's something lost in translation here, but the words "managed to kiss her" set off alarm bells, like you think of it as a game, or maybe were even trying to force that on her. My impression is that she never really wanted that kind of relationship with you in the first place. Move on.
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Sorry to hear that..
But i think she need helps with her own feeling..
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Much has been written in this thread, everything has been said :P
my opinion to this is: if a girl tells you that she likes you only as a friend, you should believe her. it might be confusing for you that she didn't refuse to kiss, but maybe that's the way she is. maybe she likes to play around, to try something new, but always with the "friend only" on her mind. Don't get lost in this situation, care about yourself. You can't force such things. Be there if it feels good, and if it feels bad, have enough self-care to distance yourself from her. good luck <3 🍀
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she is in a mess now, i suppose you need to give her some time to rethink it. I know this cause my gf was my best friend who was in a relationship with a guy for a long time. After the breakup, she was single for almost 1 and half year and i just managed to get more closer, get to know more about her during these time. Have some patience dude.
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go steal that gril!
(Idk actually. I'm bad at these stuff)
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Seems like she knows you and the other guy for awhile and she had a decision to make to be with either you or the guy.
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How it looks to me:
- you had a friend
- you wanted something more
- you tried, but it didn't take off
- it will be awkward to be "just friends" again. so...
- you've just lost a friend, pretty much
I don't want to judge but IMO that's sums up what you wrote. Sorry!
...unless maybe you let go and it goes back to normal (unlikely but not impossible)
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find some other girl to share your pain with her and fall in love again
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Bump.....I've never been in a relationship so i can't really give any useful advice.
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Invoke satan, take her soul, put it in a rubber ducky
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It's about feelings... Yes, damn feelings.
So I have this long term friendship with a bisexual girl. I always taught that she had a very tough character and that we would never work togheter.
About one month ago she went out of a 5 years relationship with a girl and we started to get very close, like hearing each other every day, chatting whenever we could and so on because she needed someone close to get her out of the pain. Point is that by becoming so close I started noticing some things about her that I liked of her and in the end I fell for her. At the beginning she brutally refused me saying that we were too friends to have a relationship and could never see me as her boyfriend. I did not gave up and insisted and finally she started to change her mind a little bit.
I managed to kiss her in two occasions (on the lips) and she changed her behaviour towards me. Last saturday we went out and had fun. I managed to kiss her twice (french kiss). Depite she was not convinced at the beginning, the she started to look after me and desire me, she looked well with me. The day after we talked about it and she didn't seem to regret it, she was even sweet with me.
Monday her work colleague declared himself to her and she started thinking that it might work with him, she asked me to forget her because she sees me only as a friend. I don't know what the fck happened.
Now dear SG community, I don't want to lose her. I really care too much but I don't know how to behave and what to do. Please share your opinions with me, and in case your suggestions.
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https://ww.steamgifts.com/giveaway/G9FC3/
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