[2 hours left] Lost hope train [giveaway]

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Sounds much too familiar to me. And I know it sounds really dumb and as if I didn't know the pain you were/are going through. But I always think of a quote from Robert Frost I've once read:
"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: It goes on"
I wish you nothing but the best, with all my heart!!

You will find a great girl..The one for the rest of you life :-)

I got some free advice :)

1. Go home and cry your eyes out. Remember all the good times.
2. Think - Was there something you could have done differently? (Will help you later on, with your soul mate)
3. Burn her picture, Flush it down the toilet. Curl up and cry some more. Just let it go. It wasn't probably your fault.
4. Get up, dust yourself and Move ON! (The most important step. Your sould mate is waiting for you :) )

Well, buddy... I want to cheer you up :) you know what? forget her, find beter, close to you :) good luck to you!

I have to be honest, I hoped to the tl;dr first and then onto the train, after seeing that I would love to win ANY of those amazing games I figured out I would read the whole post, that's the least I could do!

Well, breakups from love relationships ALWAYS hurt, and I mean always. I've ended a 6 month relationship after a serious fight and also been dumped after 2 weeks for a dumb whin, I've recently completed my first anniversary EVER of a romantic relationship and almost lost everything because of stupid fears of both of us. In all 3 cases I felt like crap, both depressed and angry, and to be heart broken is one of the worst feelings in the world.

Bottom line, it's normal for you to feel down, but I see that you are taking it very well for all things considered, the best thing you can do is not to linger on thoughts about her or the relation and just move on, this is far easier said than done, but still, just put your mind and your time on a hobby you love (gaming maybe) and see what projects you can put your energy into (academic, professional, physical, etc.).

I wish you the best bro, aloha!

bump for a great train following major sadness, hope you're ok

Sorry to hear, but as everyone has said already, life goes on. It will be hard for the time being and no one can tell you how long the pain will last. But as you said, you care for her and I am sure when you two were together, she was true to you so just cherish those time you have together and wish her all the best and just move on with your life. No need to hold on to someone who has already moved on, that road is a painful one.

things may not be going your way right now but it could have been worse..

You should be happy I guess. You kinda dodged a bullet there. If a girl cheats for such a long time and doesn't even have balls to say it immediately, but plays the "maybe" game, you are just really lucky that you've got to know her real face, because it was too late. Imagine if she turned out to be a slut, only after you've been married and with kids, now that would be a hard punch to your face.
All in all, cheer up, go to the Winchester, have a pint, and wait for this to blow over ;)

dude..what you said in edit..it shows real character.. with this kinda outlook in life you're gonna get very far in life indeed.
Chin up.
thank you for the nice giveaway.

sorry man

Well... At least she is happy
Think positively

This looks the story of my second love.

She wasn't abroad tho, and took a crap on my face, not literally.

Good times

Thanks for sharing with us.

Bumpo!

Aww it happens, usually long distance relationship don't work too well :c

You'll find another girl :)

Actually, in a weird way you should be glad she broke up with you that way. Because it was less painful for her that way. You say you love her, so I'm assuming that means you would want her to feel the least amount of pain possible, cuz isn't that how we are to the people we love? She probably couldn't bring herself to break up face to face because it was painful. Women are really emotional and stuff and feel things more than guys. I'm sure deep down she knows what a wimp she was to break up with you that way. Or maybe she thought it would be less painful for you to break up that way and was trying to be considerate of you.

Anyway, thanks for the awesome train! Mourn the loss of a promising relationship. Then move on. That's all you can do. Hope you find the one for you!

Sad story :(

I know that feel... Kind of... I mean I still can't get over this girl after several years and I don't know why, I mean, she was the only one I could really talk to and I guess it got on her nerves and that just made things worse for me, blah blah blah, she files a restraining order against me (It didn't last, though, because I'd never try to do anything to hurt her) but yeah, I pretty much try to just care about anime girls now. They can't hurt you as bad, lol... (-_-)

Only time will help you to forget her and find other girl after all.

This is going to sound blunt because you have been living in a dream world. It is actually better to live in reality because your world will not fall apart when the illusions are dispelled.

Firstly, you haven't been "cheated on." You would need to be in a committed relationship before that could happen. Boyfriend/girlfriend is a status for people who haven't made up their minds and have not yet decided to commit to the other person. If you're really looking for commitment, you should be searching for a wife, not a girlfriend. (Captain Obvious would like to point out that your former girlfriend is not a good candidate.)

Secondly, you're actually better off. You didn't really get rejected by the woman of your dreams, and certainly not because you were lacking in some way. Rather, you were involved with someone whose character flaws were too serious for her to deal with you in a mature (or even decent) manner. This is not about judging her, it's about facing reality. You say you love her, but your OP would seem to indicate that you're confused about what love really is. (So many people are.) It would probably help a lot if you knew the difference between love and infatuation. In the meantime, be happy that you didn't get stuck with her and move on to one of the millions of women in the world who actually deserve your attention..

Thirdly, this may or may not be a good time for you to be in a relationship, and now you have a chance to reconsider. Remember that you need to have your own life "together" before you can properly share it with someone else. Is your life truly "complete" as it is? Or are you still working on building it? If you haven't reached a point of "I'm OK living this current life for the foreseeable future," then you still have some work to do.

P.S. (It really wasn't about you. When you have more life experience, you will understand that, but for now, keep in mind that your feeling of "loss" is only there because you have never known that which is much, much better. A real woman treats others with respect, speaks openly and honestly about what is on her mind, works hard to maintain her relationships, and loves and supports her man. A real woman demands a real man, however, so I suggest you make that a priority.)

Nice bump!

The next one will be a better one. !

Bump, two hours left.
It's your last chance to get on the train.