Would love to marry but my SO doesn't want to. For no reason in particular though.
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Neither marriage or kids or being single.
I prefer to just keep the magic of being a cute couple forever, which has worked out extremely well.
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Single for ~7 years, got enough problems (health mostly) on my own and don't want others to worry or suffer because of me. I'm also not planning to have kids because of chronic diseases that may be inherited, I don't want them to have that kind of life. My closest relationship is with my computer and I don't even feel bad for it.
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Doesnt matter to me if I stay single or get married, but I dont want kids.
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there's a saying in my language: being single is sultanate :D im not even sure if it's meaning can be translated like this but who cares :P
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Single. I'm too messed up to be with anyone and to take care of a family.
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I don't think anyone can be 'too messed up' for love or friendship. Don't be so hard on yourself, even Hitler had a faithful longterm relationship ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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It's easy to say that about anyone else. I'd agree with you about everyone, but not myself.
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While I don't know you personally, and assuming you are in fact not part of the X-men or the next stage in human evolution, let's just say there is no chance of you having an "unlovable" gene. I can tell you to the best of my knowledge scientists have not found any evidence of this "unlovable" gene till date either. I think you're just in a rough patch and soon you'll be out of it, simply because the universe always balances itself out ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Just stay strong during this ebb \o/
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It's a choice though. I don't want to love anyone because I know I'd bring more misery into this person's life than happiness.
My rough patch has been lasting for 15 years so far so yeah, no hope it will ever end. I adapted though but will never bring anyone near it. Near me.
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Is it really a choice anymore? If it is, do me a favour and try the other option. Start a relationship and let him/her/it decide for themselves if you are a burden or not. Maybe for that someone, your burden will be better than any happiness with someone else ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Maybe that will be the start of the good times for the both of you ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Or maybe I'm completely wrong and talking out of my behind, who knows 🤷 Experiments are in order 👩🏽🔬
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I wouldn't change my mind right now even if you paid me million dollars. Do me a favour and respect my choice because it is my choice and mine alone. Thanks.
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Plus I won't even count how many times people were disappointed in me (especially women). I'll never let any woman near me, will never become friends with one, period. I would be an idiot if I hadn't learned my lesson after all that I've been put through in my life when it comes to women. They always took advantage of me while never giving anything back and never caring about my needs.
That's one thing.
My issues are another.
Both of those make me choose that I don't want to ever be in a relationship with a woman, even (and maybe especially) as a friend.
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Fuck me, same shit with me... to an extend. I've been going on with meaningless relationships for months and it's just a waste of time because I know I don't like them, I'm just doing it for the sake of I was alone.
Now I don't mind anymore about being alone. There's only this really tiny circle in my life and I like that. I'm happier than when I was dating.
Emotions, man. They're a bloody pain in the arse.
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recently became single after a 5 years relationship. i'm not christian nor catholic but want to get merry in a church. want children.
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Children is the plural of child. You don't have to add S to children.
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I'm far too complicated for people. Unless you truly understand loyalty and love, you're not the one for me.
"Bitches ain't shit but hos and tricks"
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Careful what you wish for.
When we found out we were having twins, I famously said, "twins would be great!"
My wife never lets me forget it and likes to quote it back to me. =)
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My hope in the future is finding a cool alien girlfriend, get married and have a million alien children with her, then all of us will live happily enjoying nice family activities like invading Earth. Or find a way to become the new God, then all humans on Earth will be my children.
Realistically though I'm undecided, I'm at a very unstable stage of my life, and I'm not good at staying positive about the future. Also my opinion on having children is less than positive, so single or married without children is most likely with a male partner; with a female partner definitely no marriage or children as neither is possible where I live. But the future is never set in stone so who knows.
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Engaged, 1 kid. Will get married in April, don't want more kids - no sleep and no time to play video games ;P
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in a relationship with my gamergirl for >10 years and we will never marry or get kids, but we are lucky together :)
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Forever alone
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gibbe da pussy baws
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I'd say single up to a certain point then married. That point might be represented by a certain age, a certain event, person, mood or anything else that determines you to make that step forward.
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I apparently have a ridiculously irregular situation in which I have never in my 21 years cared, and probably never will care, about romantic relationships to the point I just kind of ignore anything remotely related to it (I was pretty naive in highschool in hindsight).
I mean unless I meet someone who actually shows interest in knowing me but that'll never happen, so I'll continue being another "forever lonely" person. :')
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I've tried single, I've tried marriage.
I think something in between is perfect. So I date.
That seems to work out best for me, and I still have plenty of time to work on myself without "leaning on" someone else.
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I'm married no kids, but in the future I would like to have some and by some I mean ( two) xD but who knows :), the thing is to be happy, single, married, with kids or not , what matter in the end is your own happines no matter what you choose!
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I wish I were poly. But I'm so boringly romantic, I dream of meeting a girl who will push me just enough to get past my anxiety and lwt me enjoy things but know when its too much and when to help me. Besides my virginity I don't wanna have sex besides maybe with a partner after a while. But Like I see all these poly people enjoy life more than I ever could and I want that. But I can't do that.
I feel like I'm I never can be happy, I want to many opposing things. I want and don't want so many if the same things
Butt honestly, the happiest I was was when I was being taken advantage of by a manipulative sexually abusive girl. It was the only time I felt like I was cared about and wanted even if it wasn't true. I think I would take that back right now. Even if it's fake and hurt and I did horrible things, It was an experience unlike ths.
I'd perfer to have someone. And I don't want kids I don't think.
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Life is really fucking horrible and I don't wanna force anyone to live it. And I don't wanna deal with taking care of them, plus I couldn't go out at 30 anymore without impacting thier life bigly.
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