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With someone for more than 3 years, but we won't ever get married. Both of us had our parents getting divorced. We understand that love might not be eternal, so we're just trying to enjoy our time together now than try to plan things that might never happend.
He want some kids in the future (10 years ?), I don't know. I'll make my mind when i will be there. The world seems a bit too shitty to have kids...

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The thing is not that i don't want, I just don't know. Isn't 3 years a bit too short to know if you are ready to sign a contract that you cannot undo ? (it's a metaphor, I'm speaking about kids).
And even if I wanted to, I don't think my situation is stable enough to have one right now. I don't really want to stress myself now for something that will happen in at least few more years.

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Well, it's a bit of both in the end. The perfect moment doesn't exist, but I still hope I will be able to take the plunge one day. Thank you for your kind words :)

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I'm almost 24, still in college, i clearly don't have kids in mind. Next year will me my last, and i did not even plan where i was going to live after. If I have children, i want to have a stable situation, with a job and a house... The situation the world is will also be taken in consideration. There is way too much parameters to consider, it's so difficult to know what tomorrow will be.

I feel sorry for you, it must be really hard to go through such a situation... Both want but cannot have a kid. Did you thought about adoption ? I can understand if you don't want to answer. I hope you still found your happiness.

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Was just waiting to delete it before she checked me ;P But yeah its all fine. Your only chasing me by 4 years and have plenty of time to make that decision, besides i'd hope things never pan out like that for you!I asked her about adoption, but I think her issue with it mostly was having her own.

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Yup, so many things can happen in 4 years ! I think I will remember this conversation, it is stories like this which can make someone really think.

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I really admire your perspective here.

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Haha, thank you. There is so many people and so many opinions on the way to live, I'm always glad to meet understanding people.

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Im at a point where im just letting the wind carry me to whatever destination it wants ;P

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You know, it's possible to be in a couple without getting married. Why everyone feels it necessary to get the government involved, I don't know. As for myself, I'm incapable of getting and keeping a partner anyway, so it's of little consequence.

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marriage is overrated, having children even more 👀
not my cup of tea (but who knows what the future brings xD)

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My idea of the perfect woman is a bit too perfect. So, yeah, have not found and never will find a girl I truly wanna "be" with.
(Not that I've been searching... No way am I going out of my way to try and chain myself to someone else like that.)

As for children- N.E.V.E.R..

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Aw, that's sweet. I hope he knows you feel that way-- I imagine he does-- but that's just such a nice way to put it.

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That sure is a cute way of saying it. :D

But, alas, while I don't know how crazy your checklist was, it's probably nowhere near as impossibly unrealistic as mine!
(I'm just gonna keep saying that and hoping that the universe will try to prove me wrong some day so I can go "Haha, fooled you! I win this time!".)

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What are the requirements?
I'll tell you if it's impossible or not. :P

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That is a secret. :P
(Or at least I'm not posting it here.)

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Single, but I wouldn't mind dating either :) (just still a little too young for marriage hahaha)

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Single. Again. It seems that girls in my country are too prone to betrayal... I start to think that "love someone" is biggest curse in present time

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My partner and me are together since almost 13 years and i dont want to get married, she doesnt mind too much soooo not going to happend (as for childs, i have no job right now, so no mini lewds in a short time T.T)

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nope, spain....

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married without kids

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Single married with my PC for 17 years, got lots of kids.

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married for almost 7 years now ;)

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I'm rather lone wolf crow

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You will need someone stay with you when you feel sick...

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With me always arguing with my girlfriends and either one of us wanting to break up I'd say I'll end up single, although I'd love to have children... And a beautiful wife. Yip, some model or something. wakes up

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Either married or in a long relationship, but I hate kids.

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:O Haven't seen you on SG in ages.

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Yeah, I took a little break. May be semi-back or not, don't know yet.

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Married since 5 years.
1st children oncomming :)

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whatever's better for your taxes

oh, and no kids ofc

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