1) Call in a bomb threat to her school or place of employment. If she is unemployed, call in a bomb threat to her house.
2) As everyone is vacating the building, casually walk by and ask what's up, then promise to diffuse the bomb as you run into the building.
3) Drink a milkshake. Pet a dog. Walk out after a reasonable length of time and say, "too easy."
4) She will be so impressed that she will instantly raise her hand and scream, "at least one sex please!"
5) Get married.
6) Plan for retirement with a diversified investment portfolio.
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I will say it once and you should keep it in mind.
Have you made up your mind? Do you really like her or you just like the idea of having her?
You want her? CHASE HER. Don't let this bullshit friendship thing get in you way. If you are so desperate on what to do, that you actually asked in a Giveaway site, there is only one reason. YOU WANT HER. Not as a friend but to be yours.
There is only one solution and that is not being a friend.
Buckle up and if you really want to be the one to wake up next to her declare yourself harder.
I, WANT to be with you.
I DONT BEAR the idea of seeing someone else with you.
I DONT WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND ANYMORE. I WANT MORE THAN THIS.
If there is even a tiny speck of a need for you inside her, she will do something to be with you.
If there is not...
YOU were a good support for her while she was in need. BE HAPPY that you could help another human in a time of such a need. You were such a good and helpful man that you helped cure a broken heart. BE DAMN PROUD ABOUT IT!
AND MOVE ON.
You need to find your own human to guide you through the darkness. It may take days, it may take weeks, it may take years.
You may meet him after this one, after another two, or after a hundred. Search for your other part in a million people.
And when you find it then be despair to keep it. Because your other part will be despaired to keep you too and want go away with the first other man to tell her that she likes her too. She wont look anyone else because SHE will be despaired for YOU...
Despaired enough to ask in a giveaway site for help...
tl;dr :
READ the fuc king wall of text.
The matters of the heart don't have a shortcut.
/edit cause MSKOTOR had a point. I didn't point hard the fact that he should just speak his feelings and that's it.
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People are different. I would feel super crepy if someone I know would be so persistent. Not everyone likes to be chased.
So I'd sever my bonds with someone who'd be so annoying in the past. As I wouldn't be able to tell if they wouldn't start to be so annoying once again. So "attack and if it won't work try to be friend" is not good advice in every case.
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Who said attack? I said declare yourself harder. I never said go under her window and start singing or chase after her/ call her/ text her and more stupid things. I said tell her. Tell her how you feel. I do get misunderstood often though cause i fail at making my point sometimes.
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Sounds good, doesn't work...
At least not in most of the cases...
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No good news to you pal... you have to move on...
You see, you already did surprisingly fine in this situaton, you managed to get a few kisses out of someone who only saw you as a friend for 5 danm years! That is quite a accomplishment!
But even if she considered you as a romantic partner for a short time, as soon as someone else appeared you was put aside, so her interest in you wasn't that much.
If you try to force anything out of her now, even explanations you will appear as clingy and needy, so the best option for you is to get away from her, as distant as possible! Maybe in the future she may come after you if she is feeling lonely again, because you acted as a danm fine down to earth adult who can deal with this kind of thing! If not, well, you did your best, you tried and managed to get a few kisses, that is more than most people who are friendzoned manage to accomplish...
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You have a bad case of the disease called "oneitis".
You think she is the one, the one and only you want to spend your life with.
Forget about her. She brings too much baggage and problems with her.
Be a man going his own way and live your life on your terms.
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It's about feelings... Yes, damn feelings.
So I have this long term friendship with a bisexual girl. I always taught that she had a very tough character and that we would never work togheter.
About one month ago she went out of a 5 years relationship with a girl and we started to get very close, like hearing each other every day, chatting whenever we could and so on because she needed someone close to get her out of the pain. Point is that by becoming so close I started noticing some things about her that I liked of her and in the end I fell for her. At the beginning she brutally refused me saying that we were too friends to have a relationship and could never see me as her boyfriend. I did not gave up and insisted and finally she started to change her mind a little bit.
I managed to kiss her in two occasions (on the lips) and she changed her behaviour towards me. Last saturday we went out and had fun. I managed to kiss her twice (french kiss). Depite she was not convinced at the beginning, the she started to look after me and desire me, she looked well with me. The day after we talked about it and she didn't seem to regret it, she was even sweet with me.
Monday her work colleague declared himself to her and she started thinking that it might work with him, she asked me to forget her because she sees me only as a friend. I don't know what the fck happened.
Now dear SG community, I don't want to lose her. I really care too much but I don't know how to behave and what to do. Please share your opinions with me, and in case your suggestions.
Here's the GA (hint: add a w to the link)
https://ww.steamgifts.com/giveaway/G9FC3/
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