Oh my god, the armchair psychology ITT is absolutely terrible.
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What I'll say is hard because I think not many people would do the same, but I'd let her go. Do her stuff, experience what she wants to experience, decide what she has to decide. But I'd let her know I'll be there for her, always. She was your friend before being something else, so support her even if it hurts your feelings is what I'd do. If you love her, you want the best for her, and no one but her is the one to decide that. Maybe one day she'll decide you are the best for her. In the end, if it all is too much for you, distance yourself a bit, take your time to think about you and your own wellbeing. Love is not selfish or hard, from my point or view. It's our own flaws, fears and misconceptions that makes it hard for us to love and be loved. Hope it helps and it all gets better to you. :)
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You never had her so you never lost her.
All you were was a temporary distraction. You're just a "friend"
You can't persuade someone to love you or "insist" on it.
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Well I suggest that you talk to her and clear things up
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Well, if the girl no likes you, forget her and keep going, the life is beautiful to be sad just be kind, gentle and patient and someday you'll get a right girl for u.
Bumpy4u (＾∇＾)
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Way too go! That's a bit bold xD
You just do what you think is best for you, make sure you won't regret by not doing it
Well good luck to you ^^
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I would suggest to move on asap. She's changing her mind too quickly that doesn't work for long term relationships.
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I would really be the last to advise here, since I got ignored FOR LIFE by more girls than I can count.
Apparently telling them about their abusive bf's half a year before they realise themselves and be totally misterable is something you that has to make you never talk to someone ever again in their life :/
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This one's broken for sure, next time don't be friends with cute girls, they won't see you as a man after that =)
Or if you started being friends - be a real friend, don't try to fuck your friends =))
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Thanks for the giveaway, sorry about your troubles. :(
My heartfelt advice: find someone else, you deserve better. She seems to be using you to feel good about herself - people tend to do that after a breakup, when their self-esteem is low because they were rejected. By the looks of it she doesn't seem interested in a relationship with you, but she's willing to keep stringing you along because she likes the feeling of being desired.
Besides, even if she eventually agreed to be with you, would you feel comfortable and at peace with someone you know is capable of changing how she feels about you overnight, and of leaving you the moment she finds someone else (as she appears to have done already) ?
And it's good you're not interested in a platonic relationship with her. There's nothing wrong with not wanting to be "just a friend", quite the contrary - it shows you have self-respect. So many guys will stay friends with a girl on the off-chance she'll change her mind and eventually agree to a romantic relationship, but that never happens. By breaking things off with her, you'd be showing her you won't be strung along, and that you have self-respect - which, paradoxically, would increase your chances of ending up with her, since you'd be making her stop looking at you as just a friend, and she might even find you more attractive after this display of decisiveness.
Anyway, my two cents. Good luck, we're rooting for you! :)
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It's about feelings... Yes, damn feelings.
So I have this long term friendship with a bisexual girl. I always taught that she had a very tough character and that we would never work togheter.
About one month ago she went out of a 5 years relationship with a girl and we started to get very close, like hearing each other every day, chatting whenever we could and so on because she needed someone close to get her out of the pain. Point is that by becoming so close I started noticing some things about her that I liked of her and in the end I fell for her. At the beginning she brutally refused me saying that we were too friends to have a relationship and could never see me as her boyfriend. I did not gave up and insisted and finally she started to change her mind a little bit.
I managed to kiss her in two occasions (on the lips) and she changed her behaviour towards me. Last saturday we went out and had fun. I managed to kiss her twice (french kiss). Depite she was not convinced at the beginning, the she started to look after me and desire me, she looked well with me. The day after we talked about it and she didn't seem to regret it, she was even sweet with me.
Monday her work colleague declared himself to her and she started thinking that it might work with him, she asked me to forget her because she sees me only as a friend. I don't know what the fck happened.
Now dear SG community, I don't want to lose her. I really care too much but I don't know how to behave and what to do. Please share your opinions with me, and in case your suggestions.
Here's the GA (hint: add a w to the link)
https://ww.steamgifts.com/giveaway/G9FC3/
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