Do you have a diagnosis in the autism spectrum?
I have Asperger's, but I view it mostly as a gift. I think and learn a huge amount of detail about pretty much any topic and my brain can interconnect them all. I've kinda thought of my brain like wikipedia, where everything connected to everything else.
The problems for me stem from the social awkwardness etc... and definitely the sensory issues. Lack of light really hurts me, and sounds (like in a mega size grocery store for example) can be so overwhelming I can't really go there.
I don't drive either, because of anxiety and not able to make the split second choices required (and lack of money). And I live in a city that has pretty much 0 public transportation, and 0 walkability, so I can't really even get to stores or social situations to try to work on them :\
One common trait with Autism type issues is that it's sometimes hard to do things or focus unless we have some interest in the topic or situation. Another issue of where I live is that there is not much history or architecture or decent culture (my city has the most bars per capita of any city in the world x_x), which are things I am really interested in so even if I could get around, there's nowhere for me to go anyways.
I'm fully functional otherwise, so I'm trying to figure out a city to move to where I can actually get around and live, and where I'd actually be interested in the place. With the light issues, it would be nice if it were somewhere warm and bright for a large portion of the year, but the transportation issue is more important.
As a probably crazy dream: If anyone knows of a place in Europe (or elsewhere in the world) that I could move to that would provide help for a foreigner with Autism/Asperger's till I get on my feet, please let me know! I'd probably even consider becoming a citizen, and language is no barrier. In fact I love learning new languages, and is one of the benefits of my Asperger's :)
Sorry for the probably rambling post
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thanks for your input
I dont know a country that fits, maybe someone else?
Btw I cant drive too, its too difficult for me and in Holland you have to ask the government for a special exam if you got autism
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I feel your pain, dude..
Most businesses in our current society don't recognize the challenges and strengths of people with autism so I'd imagine finding somewhere that can help might be difficult.
Here in Adelaide, South Australia, it's not too bad. Everything you need is close and public transport is not a problem for most people.
Not sure about support for people with autism though.
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I don't think I have an autistic spectrum condition, but one of my roommates said I was very much like his brother who did, which is a bit rude when you think about it. "Hey, you're about the same socially as my brother who is operating four years behind standard development. But he's autistic, and you have no excuse." I do have demophobia though (I have a hard time in tight crowds unless I have someone I know next to me) so I've always been a little socially isolated because of obvious reasons.
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Yes. I don't necessarily externalize, but I usually try to stay outside of tight crowds or find my way out if I get stuck in one. I went to Comicon with a friend one year, and it was fine if I was near my brother or my friend but it really sucked when I got separated because I would have to move to a clear spot (which, when in a place packed with people, is not easy) to calm down and try to find people I knew.
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Maybe its better to avoid large crowds?
I avoid those crowds always, cause otherwise I faint
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I quit my last job for this, big offices buildings (2000 people more less at 8 AM with 2 hours of commute) people likes talk, I just want to do my job, every morning I wake up with rashes on my back, training was at least for 3 monts, I drop at the first month.
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I have high-functioning autism, with synesthesia and signs of savant syndrome. It was diagnosed back in 2012. It is a slightly damning thing to be told; especially when you know something's up and other avenues feel less contrived to improve upon with. High-functioning is a relative concepts as I show differing levels of difficulty with certain things depending on situation and what catalyses my mind at any given moment.
What I despise most of all are the "self-diagnosed" individuals who are using this veil to divert away from mountains of personal issues, social and developmental maladjustments to justify being downright cunts hiding a victim complex with a density akin to a neutron star. A lot of self-aggrandising pricks like to narcissitically associate with what they confuse sympathy with empathy in order to feel accepted and validated for their actions (or inactions). It is the driving force being a lot of social movements nowadays from neckbearded fedora wearing dullards to SJW "inactivism", animal rights (not saying there aren't legitimate concerns there) or what I call the "new emo"; genderfluidity and queerness coming from all sorts of misguided symptoms and agency from refusing to "conform" to a societal or familial definition of what a gender role "should be" instead of thriving and evolving past them or hermits incapable of attaining a certain ideal of a significant other choosing instead to become who said ideal should be (whether that would be the opposite sex to being an animal seen as receiving a type of attention desired in one's own life, etc.) . It deters away from actual sufferers, research, autistic individuals or actual transpeople, or bi or whatever and the much fewer "inbetweener" groups which proliferate, diluting dialogue and actual mentality shifts and therefore platforms and initiatives to help others.
Another rambling post, but yeah.
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One of the best books I ever read was about a higly functioning savant, he has also the asperger syndrome. I think you know him but if not this one Born on a Blue Day by Daniel Tammet
The second part of your story I dont recognize. I never met somebody who said I got autism, but wasnt diagnosized (hope I did write it correct)
My diagnosis was also in 2012 and its was a long test 8-10 weeks, once a week 5 hours on a day
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I have met Mr. Tammet, we were diagnosed in the same place. Not a particularly charming fellow.
As for the "armchair experts" and self-proclaimed afflicted, they are many. And multiplying. You can't call them out on it either at "first glance" as it's "socially unacceptable" due to currents parameters in this "laisser-faire" individual insular fabric.
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did you met those people in real life or here on the internet?
Btw didnt know Tammet wasnt a charming fellow I loved his book (s)
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Both, they used to be mostly on the internet and they seem have bled out in day to day life as well. It's a pain, I sometimes like to trap them around their lies when I have time to waste because the meltdown is satisfying. I'm not always the most pleasant gal either.
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haha :) I never met one or maybe I'm naieve that could also be true
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I'll have to check that book out, it sounds interesting. Based on the title, I assume he has Synesthesia as well?
I have Synesthesia too, which I find fascinating. I've had reactions from others ranging from 'wow, that's cool/interesting' to 'you're crazy'
For me, every letter of the alphabet has a specific color, as do some words. It even extends to any other language (at least with a different writing system) I learn, so for example Chinese characters and Hebrew letters have specific colors as well.
I have lots of other Synesthetic things too, but I digress.
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yes he got that too:)
He talks about it a lot in this book also in his second book
Its really interesting, I would surely read it I were you (cause you got the same)
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'I was born on 31 January 1979 - a Wednesday. I know it was a Wednesday, because the date is blue in my mind and Wednesdays are always blue, like the number nine or the sound of loud voices arguing
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I haven't been diagnosed, but I think only very, very severe cases of spectrum disorders were ever diagnosed when I was younger.
My oldest son was diagnosed with PDD though. I started noticing signs really early, and we had super helpful support , and excellent resources. He still didn't talk until he was 3, but speech helped a lot. He still has some social and texture issues, but most people would never even guess he had a diagnosis. He'll be 9 this week.
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dont know how old you are but indeed the diagnosis for children dont exist very long
I got my diagnosis when is was 42 so old :)
Nice that you had good support with your son :)
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I'm 30, and I imagine I would fall somewhere on the spectrum, but nothing severe. I have some social issues, and I will only wear certain materials, or eat certain food textures/temperatures (a lot of the same weird stuff my son does still does).
Has receiving a diagnosis helped or hindered you?
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both I think
For my job it had a big disadvantage
But for me in my personal life it helped a lot, I do understand myself much better now
I'm not just weird anymore :))
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I was a teacher and my manager didnt think a teacher with Asperger could do this work
Although I had done this work for 18 years with only good (excellent) performance interviews
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Yoshi should have done this sooner :)
thx for liking the discussion
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You are welcome. And yes, indeed, because Mario is a very bad person. >:(
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Yep. This one looks a bit more summer-related, although I would prefer a photo like yours, but with Lucky Luke instead. xD
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Hey, Lucky Luke was one my favourite comics / animated series when I was a kid. I even watched the movie and the live action series with Terence Hill back in the day :D My dad used to love it too.
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I have a few of the behaviors of Asperger's or Autism, but none of the symptoms. (My behaviors are tied to early childhood trauma rather than a specific medical condition.) I eventually learned to resist my OCD (I still feel the tug to straighten that picture frame, but I can ignore it), and my take on everything has already been mentioned by someone else.
All of life's experiences were worth it if they led to me being the person I am.
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All of life's experiences were worth it if they led to me being the person I am.
Well said, respect!
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Asperger here. In today's world it's pretty hard, depending on your starting situation. I always knew I was different but always attributed that to my particular egocentric visions and inability to compromise with things that didn't make legit sense, until I heard about it and made a positive diagnostic.
And it's really fucking hard, maybe less maybe more as I am now aware and try to find a place in this world. Last day I was shocked by a report of a NYC asperger man who was jailed because he had been arrested 28 times (!) dressed a transit conductor and conducting trains or buses with no problem because he had photographic memories of all the maps and systems, and this is the only thing that made sense for him, what he was made to do. Instead they didn't know and didn't want to deal with that so they sent him to jail and I was sad and pissed.
Asperger people usually are very good at deep thinking and precise apprehension of the world, they can see the world and things like no one else and further than no one else, and they could be of great help to many companies, academies, workshops etc...but instead we live in a world where jobs are filled by parasitic business, communication and other bullshit school bachelors to do alienating non-sensical and mostly dubious jobs, analysis or recommendations, while perceptive people are asked to conform to non-sensical, inefficient or counter productives norms and show BS credentials to get a job.
It's not easy, the world is probably not going to get better, and If I had the chance to succeed in any shape or form, one of my first endeavour would be to create a system, a structure or platform for such people from any background to find a place in society for what they were meant to do.
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...my first endeavour would be to create a system, a structure or platform for such people from any background to find a place in society for what they were meant to do.
Sounds like a worthwhile goal to me. Now, you just need to figure out the necessary components for such a consulting business and how to put it all together.
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I agree with you that it can be hard sometimes.(but I think also for people without autism)
In the older days there was more structure, people were willing to help each other out more
Nowadays we live in a fast world we all are individuals people tend to care less for each other (thats my opinion)
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luckily there is more information coming every day so people can understand what it means
Dont you think?
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yeah I agree there always will be some jerks who use autism and dont know what they are talking about same for using the word gay (and the less nice words)
But I ignore those people, dont have the patients to get in a discussion with those people
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yoshi, you do know that the spectrum is so wide now that almost every one is considered one.
hell, at first people thought that there is more autism now than a few years ago, than someone pointed out that the tests and the range has improved...
don't think we really know if there is more now or not. but i will tell you this: i think everyone has something, and the doctors are crazy for the range they use when defining it
(i read some, well actually a lot, research on it. related to my work)
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I think indeed there are more diagnosis
A lot of children get a diagnosis, but dont show any signs of autism (tschools asks for a diagnosis here)
So I think some children are getting a label too soon
And due to the fast times its hard to keep up for some people so more and more adults feel estranged from this world
But I dont think everybody has a form of autism
Its now 1 on 200, I think thats about right
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My son has high functioning autism and it is a challenge sometimes.
He's a beautiful, loving kid, that can still sometimes do my head in.
I'm also mildly on the spectrum though undiagnosed.
My biggest problem is the social aspect.
I find it difficult being in social scenes of more than 4 people.
I do try to push myself to go to parties where I am invited but with my issues I can sometimes mistakenly alienate others.
That aspect really sucks because I want good friends in my life but sometimes I mistakenly push friends away even though that is not my intention.
Another thing is that there isn't much I wouldn't do for my friends if I am able to, but sometimes my issues get in the way and I've lost one or two potentially good friends because of this.
Any suggestions or tips would be greatly appreciated.
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thanks foy your reaction
I hope others will give you a reaction. I dont have a lot of friends (had them in the past, but I lost contact with most by choice)
So its for difficult to give advice
Anyone else?
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i don't have,
by reading what does autism really means i figured out how it really was when i was affected by it for (bloody 5 years) 1-2 years ago
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I have Autism but never was really fond about sharing it. To be honest nobody has noticed. Its a label more than anything and to the people with Autism like me its not bad to be Autistic, I have learned to Map and Code for various games. Knowledge!
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yes autism doesnt sound bad indeed, I dont like to say that I'm autistic either
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I cant tell if they did honestly
Why do you think they did?
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My wife helps autistic children professionally and runs a clinic. I'm glad you made this thread to raise awareness and I'm extremely interested in this game. Thanks a ton!
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yes I hope it helps a little, also this game really helps making people understand about autism
And you are welcome ofc:)
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I don't really think I have an autism related disorder.
But I am sensitive to loud noises, crowds and bright lights.
I like people, but only a few at a time.
But I had 2 major concussions and might be that that made me more sensitive and less able to filter incoming stimuli.
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I can really relate to what you are saying especially the loud noises and bright lights
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I don't have any valuable input so have a bump instead!
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Well, my little brother have Asperger, and he used to be kinda soccially akward but therapy have help him a lot he has his low momments and everything but he is doing great ^^
Also what surprise me is how smart can people whit asperger be.
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One of the requirements for being diagnosed with Asperger is having a normal to high intellect. It is sometimes called the genius syndrome, though some argue this is unfair towards Aspergers with "only" a normal intellect.
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I was wondering according to this older thread https://www.steamgifts.com/discussion/u7ub5/personal-autism-awareness-were-just-like-everyone-else how many people on steamgift have an autism (related disorder) I was diagnosed too with autism
Cause the gaming community is sometimes associated with autism.
What difficulties do you have in the ordinairy world? Do you have any other disorder related to your autism?
What do you see as (dis) advantages to (your) autism
Update: only 2 days left in the autism awareness week http://www.autism.org.uk/get-involved/world-autism-awareness-week.aspx
And this game is on sale: http://store.steampowered.com/app/511630/
giveaways are over
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